Skills Gained
                                          For Being with Self and Others  | 
                                      
                                    
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                                      |  Self Reflection  | 
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                                       Ability to be self reflective so that
                                        you recognize and name your inner experiences. 
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                                      |  Discerning Feelings and Energy  | 
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                                       Ability to listen to your inner feelings
                                        and note how another’s words are
                                        affecting you. 
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                                       Ability to recognize your own energy
                                        and understand its tone and direction.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to recognize the energy of
                                        another person and to find its tone and
                                        direction.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to recognize the feeling and
                                        emotional tone of another.  
                                        
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                                       Communication  
                                        Skills  | 
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                                       Ability to observe and to take note
                                        of your body language as a means of communication.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to convey what you are feeling
                                        in words, language and nonverbals that
                                        are congruent with those feelings.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to observe and to take note
                                        of another’s body language as a
                                        means of communication.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to listen and to hear what
                                        another is saying or trying to say.  
                                        
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                                       Confrontation  
                                        Skills  | 
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                                       Ability to challenge and confront
                                        yourself and others. 
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                                       Ability to be challenged and confronted
                                        by another.  
                                        
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                                       Encouragement  
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                                       Ability to encourage and support yourself
                                        and others.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to receive encouragement and
                                        support from another. 
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                                      |  Role Separation | 
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                                      Ability to leave aside your role. 
                                        
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                                       Ability to create a clear space within
                                        you that is open and receptive to your
                                        inner wisdom.
                                         
                                        
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                                       Ability to let go of presuppositions.  
                                        
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                                      |  Recognition and Acceptance
                                          of Resistance   | 
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                                       Ability to recognize and be comfortable
                                        with your own inner resistances.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to recognize and to be comfortable
                                        with another person’s resistances.  
                                        
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                                      |  Spiritual Practices  | 
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                                       Ability to use learned approaches
                                        such as Focusing, Active Imagination,
                                        Dreamwork, etc. in delving into your
                                        own interior and in developing deeper
                                        relationships with others. 
                                        
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                                      |  Personal Growth  | 
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                                      Ability to be present to yourself and
                                        to others. 
                                        
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                                       Ability to trust your own inner responses
                                        to what another is saying or doing.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to aid yourself in becoming
                                        more reflective in all events in your
                                        life.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to recognize and value the
                                        meaningful events in the integration
                                        of your life.  
                                        
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                                       Ability to discern the movement and
                                        direction in inner experience.  
                                        
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                                       Capacity and ability to make good
                                        and sound assessments about where another
                                        is, his or her issues and areas for growth.  
                                        
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